Angelina Hue

In January, many people were sharing throwback photos on social media and reminiscing about 2016. Many, especially millennials, were nostalgic for what seemed like a simpler time. However, 2016 was also a tumultuous time with political upheavals that continue to resonate today.

For me, 2016 was defined by two distinct chapters.

Chapter 1: Leaving Brussels and Europe

The first half marked the end of nearly five years in Brussels, following my move to Paris for studies. This transformative period in Europe was the first time I had lived abroad.

A taxi driver told me, “Once you stay in Brussels for over five years, you might never leave.” Sometimes I wonder if his remark subconsciously motivated my move as my five-year mark in the Belgian capital approached! 

The main reason for relocating to Asia was to be closer to family as my mother’s cancer diagnosis a few years prior weighed heavily on my mind. The March 2016 terrorist attack in Brussels was sobering as we had been at the airport just two days prior. While it wasn’t the reason for our move – I had already secured a job in Hong Kong – it left a lasting impact. I remember vividly the heavy, uncertain atmosphere that cloaked the city against the perpetually grey skies. 

By mid-2016, my journey with Starwood ended, coinciding with its acquisition by Marriott. I sometimes ponder how my life might have unfolded had I stayed. Would we have moved to London, like some former colleagues? Would I have gained permanent residency in Belgium?

Chapter 2: Starting Afresh in Hong Kong

I arrived in Hong Kong in late May, just as summer began. I recall the thrill of walking the streets at night in shorts, a refreshing change from Northern Europe’s cold climate. Though now, Hong Kong’s muggy, oppressive summer weather often feels dreary! 

Before moving to Hong Kong, the city always had a special place in my heart. It  was the first place I travelled to with friends. I later visited the city on my inaugural solo trip to get over a failed relationship.

The electric energy and chaotic cityscape fascinated us. However, we hadn’t expected to stay in Hong Kong for so long, certainly not through a global pandemic that kept us grounded for a few isolating years. 

I also never thought that we would end up living on Lamma Island – where there are no cars and the only way to get to and from the island is by ferry (and helicopter, for medical emergencies). The third largest island of Hong Kong, it remains largely undeveloped. Lamma is home to around 7,000 people (0.1% of the city’s seven million inhabitants) as well as various creatures, from red-whiskered bulbuls and countless butterflies to bamboo vipers and scolopendras. Living on Lamma Island for the past five years definitely improved our quality of life and gave me a profound appreciation of a different lifestyle.

Looking Ahead: 2026 and Beyond

As I look back on 2016 and everything that has transpired since, I’m excited to envision the future. What will the next decade hold for us? Where do we see ourselves in 10 years? What do I need to do or learn to get closer to my aspirations? 

I’m taking my time to shape ideas about what this future might look like. There’s no rush to make things happen. As I consider the possibilities, I sometimes have to remind myself to be intentional on what to leave behind and what to say no to. After all, it is easy to slip into familiar behaviours, and every yes means saying no to something else. While I’m not expecting a perfect outcome, I want to exercise more active agency over my life.